Permission Granted to Celebrate Your Way

Holidays are often packed with traditions, expectations and an endless list of things we feel we should do. We hear phrases like This is how we’ve always done it! OR The holidays are about being together, no matter what. 

 

 

Let’s explore what it might mean to give yourself permission to say “yes” to what you genuinely want to do—and “no” to what doesn’t resonate with you.

 

The idea of “supposed to” often creeps into our lives around the holidays. We’re told we’re supposed to spend time with family, decorate the house, exchange gifts and attend gatherings—even if some of these traditions don’t bring us joy. The concept of “supposed to” is often rooted in the ideas of what someone else thinks the holidays should look or feel like.

It can be hard to step away from these expectations, but giving yourself permission to celebrate in your own way is the ultimate gift.

 

Imagine how freeing it would feel to create a holiday that’s authentically yours—a season where each decision, each plan, is shaped by what genuinely brings you happiness.

 

 

This is where you have the permission and power to say yes to all the things that truly fill your cup. Consider what genuinely excites you and embrace it wholeheartedly.

It could be a long, peaceful walk or run, watching a favourite holiday movie, swimming in the ocean, volunteering or creating your own unique tradition.

Give yourself permission to make choices based on your desires, not just tradition or obligation.

 

Equally important is the permission to say no to things that don’t resonate with you.

Do you dread crowded parties, last-minute shopping or elaborate holiday meals? If it feels more like a burden than a blessing, it’s okay to set boundaries and make a conscious choice to opt out.

 

This could mean gently declining an invitation, choosing a simpler gift exchange, or spending a quiet evening at home instead of rushing to every event. By honouring your boundaries, you make space for true happiness and a holiday that feels authentic to you.

 

Crafting a holiday season based on your own beliefs and values invites a powerful shift. For generations, holidays have been packed with shoulds and musts, yet when you allow yourself the freedom to celebrate in ways that truly align with who you are, the season becomes more joyful, intentional and deeply meaningful.

Perhaps this season, your focus could be on:

Connection with Loved Ones: Spending time with people who uplift you, whether that’s family, friends or even a virtual get-together with someone far away.

Reflection and Self-Care: Taking time to reflect on the past year, practice gratitude, and set intentions for the new year.

Creativity and Joy: Engaging in activities that light you up, whether it’s decorating, crafting or playing music.

Service and Generosity: If giving is important to you, consider ways to give back that feel meaningful, like volunteering or donating to causes you care about.

 

This blog grants you permission to celebrate the holidays your way.

This holiday season, let’s give ourselves the greatest gift of all—the freedom to celebrate in ways that bring us joy and reflect our true selves.

Let go of supposed to and embrace what feels right for you. By doing so, you honor both yourself and those around you, creating a holiday season filled with authenticity, happiness and genuine connection.

 

After all, the spirit of the holidays isn’t found in specific traditions or checklists; it is found in the moments that resonate with our hearts.

 

Celebrate in ways that lift you up, bring you peace and make your soul feel at home.