Ignite Independence
Jul 08, 2025
Independence is a concept that is often associated with freedom, strength and self-reliance.
Let me share something with you…..independence is all of the above and so much more.
More than the ability to stand on your own.
It is the art of balancing self-trust with meaningful connections.
It is honouring your individuality while still tending to the relationships that enrich your life and rituals that nourish your soul.
Independence is a beautiful paradox: standing tall in your truth while staying open to love, belonging and the people and passions that fuel your soul.
Independence is about consciously choosing what aligns rather than cutting ties with people or isolating yourself.
Independence is the cultivation of confidence and resilience to live authentically, guided by your own values, intuition and inner wisdom.
Independence is the cultivation of confidence and resilience to live authentically, guided by your own values, intuition and inner wisdom.
It’s not about isolation.
It’s about creating a foundation so strong that you can thrive and love freely, without losing yourself.
It’s not about performing or pleasing.
It’s about responding with clarity, choosing with courage and living with intention.
Independence doesn’t just happen overnight; independence is a journey of self-discovery and intentional living.
Independence is not about isolation.
It is about creating a solid foundation that allows you to thrive while maintaining harmonious connections with others.
Independence is more than just a state of being. It is a way of living with confidence, clarity and purpose.
Ignite it.
Nurture it.
Let it light your path forward.
In this blog, you will discover how to ignite your independence by breaking free from codependence, embracing the empowering energy of “in” words, and living a life guided by intention and intuition.
You will be invited to explore the sacred shift from:
➝ Needing approval → trusting your inner compass
➝ People-pleasing → soul-pleasing
➝ Needing approval → trusting your inner compass
➝ People-pleasing → soul-pleasing
➝ Reacting → responding
➝ Being pulled in all directions → standing grounded in your truth
➝ Being pulled in all directions → standing grounded in your truth
In this sacred space, you will explore:
⭐ How to break free from codependence and reclaim your personal power
⭐ How to ignite self-trust and stand tall in your truth
⭐ The transformative magic of “in” words and the language of independence
⭐ Ways to balance freedom with connection, ambition with inner peace
⭐ Journal prompts, soulful practices, and rituals to guide your journey.
Whether you are releasing patterns that no longer serve you, stepping into aligned, heart-led opportunities or deepening your relationship with yourself….
You are welcome here.
You are right on time.
You are right on time.
We will also reflect on the beauty and power of “in” words like:
Integrity
Intuition
Intention
Insight
Inspiration
When we return to the power of these words, we return to the power within.
This blog is an invitation for you.
To reconnect with your wild, intuitive, independent spirit.
To lead yourself first.
To listen inward.
To live life on your terms.
To reconnect with your wild, intuitive, independent spirit.
To lead yourself first.
To listen inward.
To live life on your terms.
To uncover soul-led ways to ignite your independence.
To live boldly, love freely and return to the most sacred relationship of all.
The relationship you have with yourself.
To live boldly, love freely and return to the most sacred relationship of all.
The relationship you have with yourself.
Choose your own rhythm.
Walk your own path.
Trust your own knowing.
Walk your own path.
Trust your own knowing.
Let the ignition of independence begin as we dive into the essence of what it means to be truly independent not just in action, but in body, heart, mind and soul. 💖
Independence is a state of being that goes far deeper than just self-reliance.
It’s about living with purpose and clarity, being anchored in who you are and navigating the wild terrain of life with grace.
Independence is more than a label or a word.
It is a way of living with purpose, clarity, and grace. It means being anchored in who you are and choosing your path with courage, conviction and care as you navigate the wild yet wonderful terrain of life.
It means aligning your actions with your values.
It means trusting your intuition, even when others don’t understand.
It means letting your inner wisdom lead the way.
It means trusting your intuition, even when others don’t understand.
It means letting your inner wisdom lead the way.
True independence is about conscious connection.
You don’t seek others to complete you, but to complement your wholeness.
You walk beside others, not behind them.
You honour your needs, speak your truth and allow love to flow from overflow not form lack.
You walk beside others, not behind them.
You honour your needs, speak your truth and allow love to flow from overflow not form lack.
To be truly independent is to build relationships and a life that support and celebrate your individuality.
It was so easy to choose the image above because this is what independence feels and looks like to me.
The wind in my hair, the earth beneath me, my laughter unfiltered and unforced.
In this moment, I wasn’t performing.
I wasn’t pleasing.
I wasn’t pleasing.
I wasn’t proving.
I was simply being me.
Wild, beautiful, present, independent and grounded in my essence.
Independence is not always loud or dramatic. Sometimes it looks like sitting on a hillside, mesmerised by the ocean waves as they flow in and out, being barefoot on the earth, soaking in your own joy.
Letting your spirit rest in the quiet knowing that you belong to yourself first.
This is freedom.
This is connection.
This is connection.
This is the embodiment of a life led by intuition, intention and innate wisdom.
On the other side of independence is codependence which often stems from a deep-rooted need for validation or an inability to establish healthy boundaries. While love and connection are essential parts of being human, relying too heavily on others for your sense of self-worth can quietly hinder your growth and independence.
Codependence often arises from a place of fear.
A fear of being alone, of making mistakes, or of not being “enough” without approval from others.
A fear of being alone, of making mistakes, or of not being “enough” without approval from others.
It is so easy to fall into patterns where we outsource our worth, leaning too heavily on others to feel whole.
Those patterns, however familiar are not freedom as they keep us from fully realising our potential.
Breaking free from codependence doesn’t mean rejecting love or relationships.
It means redefining them through building self-trust, rooting your worth within, choosing to love yourself without losing yourself and intentionally honouring your needs.
It means redefining them through building self-trust, rooting your worth within, choosing to love yourself without losing yourself and intentionally honouring your needs.
Codependence can look like people-pleasing, silencing your truth or sacrificing your well-being for connection.
Real connection is never built on self-abandonment.
Real connection is built on mutual respect, shared truth and sovereignty.
When you choose self-love and inner stability as your foundation, you begin to validate your own emotions, honour your energy, trust your voice and the power of the words you are spending while you create space for others without shrinking yourself
This is where wild independence is born.
It’s not about walking away from connection. It is about walking beside others, not behind them.
It’s about creating relationships that add to your life, not complete it.
It’s about creating relationships that add to your life, not complete it.
When you reimagine relationships in this way, you ignite a deeper, wilder kind of independence.
A kind of independence that empowers you to live and love freely without ever losing yourself.
Breaking free from codependence is one of the most liberating steps you can take toward igniting your independence.
Independence doesn’t mean disconnecting from those you love.
It doesn’t mean building walls or pretending you don’t care.
Independence means creating a life where your worth isn’t tied to external validation but anchored within.
Where your love for others coexists with a fierce love for yourself.
Breaking free from codependence is a sacred and empowering journey that calls you back home to your own wisdom, voice and truth.
Here are some gentle yet extremely powerful steps to support that journey:
Practice self-awareness as you notice where you may be relying on others for your happiness, identity, or decision-making.
Ask yourself “am I doing this because it aligns with my values or because I am seeking the approval of someone else?”
Self-awareness is the first step in returning to your own inner compass.
Ask yourself “am I doing this because it aligns with my values or because I am seeking the approval of someone else?”
Self-awareness is the first step in returning to your own inner compass.
Set standards with love as boundaries are beautiful bridges to connection and standards are sensational. They protect your peace, honour your energy and create space for respectful, soul-nourishing relationships. Learn to say “no” without guilt and “yes” with your whole heart.
Reclaim your power as you take full responsibility for your emotional wellbeing. You don’t need someone else to fix things for you as you don’t need fixing at all.
You are wise, resilient and resourceful.
Trust in your own capacity to respond, adapt and rise as you already hold the tools within you to navigate whatever life brings.
You are wise, resilient and resourceful.
Trust in your own capacity to respond, adapt and rise as you already hold the tools within you to navigate whatever life brings.
Celebrate your wins as every step no matter how small is worth celebrating. Every no, every sacred pause, every brave act of self-honouring matters. From saying no for the first time, to taking a day just for yourself to kindly speaking your truth, each act is a powerful declaration of I choose me.
When you begin to break the cycle of codependence, everything shifts.
Your relationships evolve from lifelines into aligned partnerships rooted in mutual respect and authenticity.
You step into your life with greater clarity, courage, and confidence.
You step into your life with greater clarity, courage, and confidence.
You begin to love not from lack, but from abundance & overflow and that my loves, changes everything.
There is a certain magic in words, isn’t there?
They carry meaning, stir emotion, deepen connection and offer us a lens through which to view the world.
They carry meaning, stir emotion, deepen connection and offer us a lens through which to view the world.
Words are far more than just tools of communication. They are energy in motion.
Spells. Anchors. Affirmations. Medicine.
Spells. Anchors. Affirmations. Medicine.
As a wild wordkeeper and lover of lexicology (the study of words and their meanings) I find immense joy in discovering how words shape not only how we think, but how we feel, heal and experience life.
Language shapes our reality.
The words we choose carry vibration, intention, and the power to guide and transform us.
There is a special kind of power with “in” words.
They invite us inward.
They awaken something within us.
They hold a mirror to our soul.
They shape our reality, our emotions and our inner world.
They awaken something within us.
They hold a mirror to our soul.
They shape our reality, our emotions and our inner world.
As you ignite your independence, consider the empowering magic of these “in” words.
Words that invite introspection, trust in yourself and a life led by intention.
Words that invite introspection, trust in yourself and a life led by intention.
This collection of “in” words has grown slowly and soulfully over time and I trust it will continue to grow.
Each word is more than just a combination of letters.
It is a spark.
A tiny ember that lights up a corner of your mind,
Eliciting thoughts, emotions and a deep sense of possibility.
It is a spark.
A tiny ember that lights up a corner of your mind,
Eliciting thoughts, emotions and a deep sense of possibility.
These words invite you inward…
To reflect.
To reconnect.
To rise.
To reflect.
To reconnect.
To rise.
Whether you are reclaiming your independence, realigning with your inner knowing or simply expanding into your next chapter.
Here are some of the “in” words that have walked with me through life and I hope will walk with you too as you allow them to become your compass.
Independence: Living authentically, with the freedom to make your own choices
Intention: Living on purpose by aligning your daily actions with your deepest values, desires and what truly matters.
Integrity: Staying true to your values and principles even in the moments it is hard or uncomfortable, living authentically in alignment with who you are.
Intuition: Trusting the quiet inner wisdom that gently and gracefully guides your way
Incandescent: Glowing brightly from within, fueled by passion and purpose.
Incredible: Owning your brilliance and celebrating the extraordinary that already lives within you, whether it shines boldly or quietly.
Inclusivity: Honouring and welcoming diverse perspectives while staying anchored in your own truth while embracing diversity with authenticity and openness.
Indulgent: Allowing yourself moments of joy, rest and self-care to soak in all the yumminess of life.
Infallible: Trusting in your own capacity and inner strength to overcome whatever comes
Infinite: Remembering the limitless potential that pulses within your being while embracing boundless possibilities, dreams and the expansive nature of who you truly are.
Influential: Recognising the ripple effect of your authentic presence by shining your light in ways that uplift, inspire and positively impact others.
Infused: Bringing energy, soul, intentionand presence into everything you do, allowing your essence to shape each moment with meaning.
Ingenious: Honouring your creativity, cleverness and unique brilliance through celebrating the innovative spirit that lives within you.
Inherent: Recognising the natural strengths already alive within you by remembering what has always lived inside you and embracing the essence of who you have always been.
Initiative: Taking empowered steps toward your desires
Innovation: Embracing creativity and fresh ideas to navigate challenges
Inquisitive: Staying curious, open, and willing to explore new perspectives by asking questions that expand both the mind and heart.
Insight: Developing soulful perception and depth of understanding through reflection and awareness to deepen your connection to both self and others.
Inspiring: Following the sparks of creativity, light and motivation from within and letting it ripple outward by uplifting yourself and others through your words, actions and radiant presence.
Instinctual: Honouring the quiet, primal knowing within by trusting your inner compass, gut feeling and the innate wisdom your body carries to guide you.
Intangible: Valuing the unseen gifts like joy, love and peace
Integrative: Weaving all parts of you into harmony Weaving all aspects of yourself into a harmonious whole.
Intense: Allowing yourself to feel deeply and live passionately.
Intrinsic: Acting from your natural essence by connecting to what feels true, heart-opening and soul-aligned within.
Introspection: The practice of making space for reflection and allowing your inner wisdom to guide decisions rather than being swayed by outside noise.
Invaluable: Knowing your worth is beyond measure by recognising the unique contributions and soul medicine you bring to the world.
Invest: Committing time, energy and resources into your own growth and dreams
Invigoration: Recharging your energy with passion and purpose bringing a sense of excitement and aliveness into your day-to-day life.
Involvement: Fully engaging with your own life and the world around you while showing up with presence, intention and wholehearted participation.
Invincible: Trusting in your resilience, especially when things get tough.
When I sit with these words, I feel something come alive within me.
A resonance, a vibration, a spark.
It’s as though each word carries its own energy, inviting me to explore the emotions, possibilities and sensations they evoke.
Words like infinite remind me of the boundless potential within us all, while integrity grounds me in the importance of living authentically.
Sharing these words with you feels like offering pieces of a treasure map with each one leading to a deeper connection with ourselves, our values and the world around us.
Each word is a seed.
A soul signal.
A reminder of what truly supports your independence and strengthens your connection to yourself, to love and to live life.
Let these words guide you, hold you and remind you that everything you need is already within.
These words are your word-medicine, your wild vocabulary, your personal affirmations-in-disguise.
Choose one each week.
Let it guide you.
Journal with these words.
Revisit them often.
Let them live and infuse their way into your language and guide your choices and your presence.
When you begin to speak in the language of intention, you begin to live a life aligned with your deepest truth.
What does independence mean to me?
Which “in” word resonates most with my journey right now?
How can I balance independence with connection in my life?
What small steps can I take today to ignite my independence?
Let your answers be your map.
You will find a few bonus “in” words as you keep reading that are paired with thoughtful journal prompts to help you reflect, realign and rise because the way you speak to yourself matters and the words you choose can illuminate the path ahead.
Choose to make those words intentional, intuitive and wildly empowering.
Living with intention means aligning your actions with your values, while intuition serves as your inner compass, guiding you toward choices that feel authentic.
Together, these qualities ignite independence by helping you navigate life with clarity and confidence.
Together, these qualities ignite independence by helping you navigate life with clarity and confidence.
Igniting your independence means coming home to yourself and remembering that true independence doesn’t require doing it all alone. It’s a return to your truth, a rooting into self-trust and a gentle knowing that strength isn’t found in solitude but in alignment with who you truly are.
It’s about reconnecting to your inner compass, cultivating self-trust and making soul-led choices from a place of clarity and courage.
Whether you are breaking free from old patterns, embracing new opportunities or simply deepening your connection with your wild, intuitive heart this is your invitation to live more intentionally and independently.
Here are twelve powerful and wild ways to ignite your independence and embrace your unique, wild and wonderfully sovereign spirit.
Reflect regularly by spending sacred time each day journaling, meditating, or simply breathing deeply. Let these moments of stillness connect you to your inner voice and return you to your truth.
Trust your gut. Your intuition whispers through sensations, symbols and subtle nudges. Pay attention to what feels expansive, grounded, or aligned. Let your body and energy guide your decisions as it often knows far before the mind does. Honoured any and all intuitive nudges.
Live purposefully by aligning your daily actions with your deepest values and goals. Let your days reflect your soul not just your schedule. Living with intention turns everyday tasks into acts of devotion.
Honour all your needs, knowing that intuition often speaks through the body. Listen to its signals like craving rest, movement, nourishment or solitude and respond without guilt or explanation.
True independence begins when you choose to invest in self-development and yourself.
Read, learn, explore, expand.
Read, learn, explore, expand.
Take that course, attend that workshop, follow that curiosity. The more you evolve, the stronger your foundation becomes emotionally, spiritually and creatively.
Create daily practices or rituals of self-connection to anchor into presence and nourish your spirit which might include morning journaling, sipping tea in silence, pulling an oracle card or lighting a candle before bed.
These sacred pauses are gentle reminders to check in, tune in and turn inward.
These sacred pauses are gentle reminders to check in, tune in and turn inward.
Step outside your comfort zone because growth lives just beyond what feels familiar. Travel solo, speak your truth, begin that passion project, or try something new that stretches you. Every brave step expands your confidence and independence.
Brave actions = bold growth.
Build financial independence as a form of soulful freedom because money is energy. When you gain clarity over your finances, you open the door to choices rooted in your values. Budget, save, invest, and dream with intention. Empowered money moves lead to empowered, soul-aligned living.
Money = freedom to choose soulfully.
Practice emotional independence by learning to validate your own emotions and deepen your emotional intelligence. Cultivate mindfulness, breathwork and self-compassion so you don’t rely solely on others for support.
Emotional independence means resilience, self-regulation and grace.
Define your core values because clarity around what truly matters to you is a cornerstone of authentic independence. Write them down and let them guide your choices, relationships and everyday decisions. Explore the Discovering Your Core Values handbook in the Divine Downloads library.
Establish healthy standards because boundaries are beautiful and standards are sensational.
Set standards from a place of self-worth and sovereignty rather than fear. Boundaries protect your peace, your energy and your sacred time. They are not walls they are gates that honour what you are building within.
Celebrate your unique journey as there is no one-size-fits-all path.
Celebrate your progress, your pivots, and every step of your unfolding. Honour the twists and turns, the falls and the flights. Trust that your journey is right on time and your wild, intuitive heart is leading you exactly where you are meant to go. Honour your unfolding, pivots and progress.
Your independence is about being self-led rather than being separate.
Anchored in love.
Guided by inner wisdom.
Fueled by intention and wild aliveness.
You have got everything you need within you.
It is now time to intentionally ignite it.
By focusing on these practices, you will not only ignite your independence but also create a life that feels deeply aligned with who you are and what you desire.
Let your independence be the flame that fuels your journey forward, lighting up the path for both yourself and those around you.
Let your independence be the flame that fuels your journey forward, lighting up the path for both yourself and those around you.
When you live with intention and follow your intuition, you are not just reacting to life you are actively shaping it through the lens of independence and inner alignment.
There is a beautiful balance between independence and connection.
True independence isn’t about isolating yourself or going it alone.
It’s about creating a life that honours your individuality while also embracing meaningful, soul-nourishing relationships.
Think of yourself like a tree with deep, grounded roots anchoring you in your truth and wide, expansive branches reaching outward to connect with the world.
True independence deepens your ability to connect from a place of wholeness.
With strong roots you no longer sway to please others, you expand to welcome them in.
The healthiest relationships happen when two whole people walk beside each other.
Not to complete one another, but to grow together.
Connection + Independence = Interdependence.
Not needing each other but choosing each other.
When you cultivate self-reliance and self-love, you can give and receive love freely without losing your sense of self in the process.
You are no longer seeking connection from a place of need or fear—but from fullness, authenticity and aligned reciprocity which is a f***ing fabulous place to be.
Balance doesn’t mean sacrificing one for the other.
It means weaving together the wild freedom of independence with the sacred beauty of connection.
The healthiest relationships are born when two whole people meet to grow beside one another rather than to complete against each other.
Balancing your wild independence with meaningful connection is an art that allows you to show up fully for yourself and others. It’s not about choosing one or the other, but about embracing both independence and connection and weaving them together in a way that feels true for you.
Here are a few gentle, grounding ways to cultivate the harmonious flow between independence and connection.
Deepen connections by building relationships that celebrate who you are not those that shrink or silence your spirit. Choose people who honour your individuality and cheer you on as you grow.
Celebrate interdependence, knowing that true strength lies in mutual support. Interdependence is not dependency—it’s the dance of giving and receiving, of standing strong together while still standing tall on your own.
Let your independence inspire others. When you live from a place of authenticity and self-trust, your energy becomes magnetic. Share your love and light, your journey and your lessons to uplift and empower those around you.
Inspire, don’t abandon. Your independence is a gift, not just to you but to those you love. It shows all that is possible. When you live from your truth, you give others permission to do the same.
Finding this balance is a lifelong dance but when you honour both your inner fire and your desire for connection, you create a life that’s rooted, radiant and real.
As promised above, here are more empowering “In” words to ignite your independence.
Each word is a spark.
A reminder of your inner wisdom, your wild power and your unfolding path toward deeper self-trust and soul-led living.
Inception: The start of something extraordinary. Welcoming new beginnings and creative sparks, and allowing the moment a dream is born to unfold with intention.
Inclusive: Creating space for diverse voices, ideas and hearts, building bridges through understanding and compassion while staying true to yourself.
Incremental: Trusting in the power of small, steady steps as each step is a part of meaningful growth and the foundation for big transformation over time.
Ingenious: Celebrating your creative and clever problem-solving spirit.
Inherent: Recognising the natural strengths already alive within you.
Initiative:Taking empowered action to follow what lights you up.
Innovation: Creating new ways of being and thinking
Inseparable: Cherishing unbreakable bonds with loved ones or your own truth.
Insightful: Gaining clarity and depth through reflection and awareness.
Inspired: Tapping into your inner well of creativity and motivation
Intangible: Valuing the unseen gifts of love, joy, peace and presence.
Interactive: Building meaningful relationships and connections.
Interwoven: Appreciating how our lives are beautifully interconnected.
Intriguing: Embracing curiosity and the beauty of the unknown.
Inviting: Welcoming new opportunities, ideas, relationships, joy and love into your life with open arms and an open heart.
Inward: Turning gently toward your inner world for reflection and truth.
How do these words feel to you?
Do they evoke excitement, comfort or curiosity?
My hope is that as you read them, you feel empowered to take these words and weave them into your own journey.
Use them as intentions, as daily reminders, or as touchstones to guide you toward growth, connection and fulfillment.
Each word is an invitation to dive deeper into our experiences, offering new ways to think, feel, and grow. Introspection reminds us to pause and reflect on our inner world, while introduction encourages us to step into new chapters and opportunities. Invention calls on our creativity and interdependence reminds us of the harmony between independence and connection.
Which of these words resonates most with you right now?
Let them spark your curiosity and guide you toward greater alignment with your true self.
These “In” words can be used as anchors, intentions or even journal prompts as you move through your journey of self-discovery, healing and empowered independence.
Let the words be a reminder to you.
You are your own guide.
Your independence is sacred.
The answers you seek are already within.
Language is such a gift because it shapes how we see ourselves, how we connect with others, and how we experience the world.
To me, sharing words like these is an act of love, a way of igniting possibilities in others and fostering a sense of shared humanity.
As you move forward today, let these “in” words inspire you.
Let them guide you toward your own light, your own truth and your own infinite potential.
Always remember the power of a word lies not just in its definition, but in the way it makes us feel and who it invites us to become.
Independence is a sacred journey.
A journey of self-discovery, empowerment, reverence, growth and deep introspection.
It’s about breaking free from patterns that no longer serve you and boldly stepping into a life that feels authentically yours.
To ignite your independence:
Trust yourself
Live with intention
Embrace your intuition
Celebrate your unique path
As you nurture this inner fire, you will find it not only enriches your life.
It strengthens your ability to connect with others from a place of fullness, freedom, and love.
It strengthens your ability to connect with others from a place of fullness, freedom, and love.
Independence is not about isolation.
It’s about standing strong in who you are.
Rooted in your truth.
It’s about standing strong in who you are.
Rooted in your truth.
Guided by your values.
It’s about creating a life that reflects your vision, your voice and your wild heart not the expectations of others.
It’s about creating a life that reflects your vision, your voice and your wild heart not the expectations of others.
True independence deepens your capacity to relate not retreat.
To love, not lose yourself.
To walk beside others not behind them.
To love, not lose yourself.
To walk beside others not behind them.
Let your independence be the spark that lights your way forward.
🔥 A flame of clarity
🔥 A glow of inner knowing
🔥 A beacon for the life you desire and deserve to live
🔥 A flame of clarity
🔥 A glow of inner knowing
🔥 A beacon for the life you desire and deserve to live
This isn’t about becoming someone else.
It is all about coming home to yourself.
To the fire in your belly, the compass in your chest, the truth in your bones.
It is all about coming home to yourself.
To the fire in your belly, the compass in your chest, the truth in your bones.
Your independence is not a phase.
It is a sacred unfolding.
It is a sacred unfolding.
What does independence mean to me?
Which “in” word resonates most with my journey right now?
How can I balance independence with connection in my life?
Let your independence fuel your wild, intuitive, authentic life.
Always remember… “When you live with intention and follow your intuition, you’re not just reacting to life you are shaping it.”
Now go light your fire.
Let it burn brilliant and bright.
Let it gracefully guide you home.
Let it burn brilliant and bright.
Let it gracefully guide you home.
