An Unstoppable Legacy: Honouring the Life and Teachings of Kerwin Rae
Nov 09, 2024I have been sitting on this blog, trying to find the right words and the right time. But the truth is, there are no right words to express the depth of loss I feel for Kerwin Rae—a guide and man whose wisdom shaped my life and whose legacy will remain a guiding light for so many. I type this with a heavy heart, hoping this tribute will honour his inviting, gentle and larger-than-life presence.
Although I never had the privilege of meeting Kerwin Rae, his guidance felt as familiar and impactful as that of a dear friend.
Through his podcast, Unstoppable with Kerwin Rae, and his social media platforms he spoke to me in ways that left lasting imprints on my heart, soul and life.
His words came from a place of profound empathy, strength and resilience, resonating deeply with the core of who I am and who I aspire to be. Listening the Unstoppable by Kerwin Rae podcast now feels different—a poignant reminder of the impact he had and will continue to have, even as we say goodbye.
As I reflect on all that Kerwin Rae taught me, I am reminded of the many ways he empowered, guided and uplifted others. His insights spanned far beyond business; they were woven with life lessons, profound wisdom and unwavering authenticity.
Here are a few of the many lessons from Kerwin that continue to guide me each day.
Courage to Be Unstoppable: Kerwin taught me that being unstoppable isn’t about never falling—it is about rising, again and again, no matter the obstacles. He believed that resilience was something we build with every challenge, and he encouraged us to find our strength in the struggles. This lesson resonates now more than ever, reminding me that even in loss, there is a way forward, powered by the strength of those who inspire us.
Authenticity is Everything: Kerwin always had a clear message: be real, be vulnerable, and never ever apologise for who you are. He invited us to strip away the masks, to let go of pretense, and to live with open hearts. This call to authenticity allowed me to embrace both my strengths and my insecurities with grace, knowing that being genuine is the most powerful way to connect with others.
Service Over Self: One of the most impactful teachings of Kerwin was that true success lies in service. His life was a testament to helping, suppprting and guiding others, and he believed that giving was the essence of fulfillment. Through his work, he reminded us to focus on how we can lift others, and I carry this lesson with me in my own journey, striving to make a difference in every possible way I can.
Embrace Growth, Even When It’s Hard: Kerwin never shied away from discussing the difficult, uncomfortable aspects of growth. He taught me that the greatest transformations of life often come from moments of discomfort and uncertainty. This perspective shifted my view on challenges, helping me see each struggle as an opportunity to evolve and expand.
Find Joy in the Journey: Kerwin had an infectious energy, his laugh unforgettable and his smile compassionate. He reminded us to celebrate the journey—to find light in the small moments, joy in the process and gratitude in every step. Even when facing hardship, Kerwin had a way of reminding us that life is meant to be lived fully, with passion and a sense of wonder.
Take Risks and Trust the Process: Kerwin was a fierce advocate for courageously stepping outside of our comfort zone. He believed that the only way to truly grow was to take risks, even when they scare us. He taught me that success often lies on the other side of fear and that the journey to get there, no matter how uncertain, is worth every step. His advice helped me shift from seeing risks as threats to viewing them as opportunities.
Value Connection above All Else: In a world that sometimes feels disconnected, Kerwin reminded us of the power of human connection. Whether through his podcast, speaking engagements or everyday interactions, he wholeheartedly lived this value. His approach showed me that connecting with others on a deep, genuine level is not only fulfilling but also a source of strength and resilience. This lesson has inspired me to prioritize relationships, listen deeply, and create spaces of belonging wherever I go.
Compassion as Strength: Kerwin often spoke of compassion as a form of strength. He challenged us to lead with empathy, to see the humanity in others, and to offer kindness even in the face of adversity. His teaching shifted my perspective on strength, helping me understand that true power lies in kindness and that compassion can move mountains.
Pursue Purpose rather than Perfection: Kerwin believed that life is about purpose rather than perfection. He taught me that striving for perfection only leads to disappointment and that a life lived with purpose is far more fulfilling. His encouragement to embrace imperfection gave me the freedom to make mistakes, to learn from them, and to continue moving forward, fueled by the meaning I find in each experience.
Gratitude as a Daily Practice: Kerwin spoke often about the importance of gratitude, not just as an occasional thought but as a daily practice. He reminded us that no matter what we are facing, there is always something to be grateful for. This lesson has become a cornerstone in my life, guiding me to seek the good, even on challenging days, and to remember that gratitude is a key to resilience and joy.
The impact of Kerwin goes far beyond words; his teachings are woven into the very fabric of my everyday life. I choose to integrate his wisdom daily.
Morning Intention-Setting: Inspired by his focus on purpose, I begin each morning by setting an intention for the day. Whether it’s to approach challenges with courage, to embrace imperfection or to connect more deeply with those around me, this simple ritual helps me live each day with meaning.
Practicing Authenticity in Relationships: Kerwin’s lesson on authenticity has inspired me to be more open and vulnerable in my connections. I no longer shy away from sharing my true self or from having honest conversations. His words remind me that the deepest relationships are built on honesty and realness.
Expressing Gratitude Daily: As Kerwin taught, gratitude is a practice, not just a feeling. I keep a gratitude journal where I reflect on at least three things I’m thankful for each day. This simple act has become a transformative way to see the beauty in the everyday and to stay grounded in positivity.
Taking Small Risks: Kerwin had a way of encouraging me to step outside of my comfort zone. Something I carry into my daily life. I have learned to embrace discomfort, to try new things, and to see each risk as an opportunity for growth. His guidance gives me the courage to reach beyond what feels easy.
Honouring Compassion and Service: Every day, I ask myself how I can help others. This lesson on service from Kerwin has become a guiding principle for me, reminding me that true fulfillment lies in lifting others. Whether through a kind word, a small act of help, or simply being present, I strive to carry his spirit of service forward.
The legacy of Kerwin Rae goes far beyond wise words. He touched countless lives with his warmth, wisdom and compassion, leaving behind a community of people forever changed by his spirit. His impact will continue to ripple through every person he inspired, every lesson he shared, and every moment he gave us permission to be our truest selves.
While it is painful to say goodbye, I take comfort in knowing that his influence is woven into my life and will remain in the hearts of so many. Each time I listen to his words or reflect on his teachings, I feel his presence—a reminder that a spirit of a mentor lives on in the lives they have touched.
Rest in Peace, Kerwin Rae 🤍
Thank you, Kerwin, for the gifts of wisdom, courage and joy you brought to this world. Your legacy will continue to guide me and countless others as we walk the path you helped pave. Rest in peace, Kerwin. You were, and always will be, truly unstoppable.
In the teachings of Kerwin, we find the strength to be resilient, the courage to live fully and the wisdom to serve with open hearts. His light continues to shine through the lives of those he touched, guiding us toward a life of purpose, authenticity and love. Though we may have lost him in body, his spirit remains—a gentle, unbreakable force reminding us that even in his absence, he will always be here, guiding us forward.
To Kerwin, with so much gratitude for everything.