45 Wild Ways to Make a Stranger Smile
Nov 27, 2024There is something magical about a smile.
A simple smile holds an infinite power— it can instantly shift the energy of a moment, how it can connect two people across a crowded room and how it can even turn a stranger into a friend. In a world that can sometimes feel distant or disconnected, offering a smile is one of the simplest yet most powerful ways to spread kindness and joy.
Rather than waiting for someone to smile at you first, why not be the one to show them how?
When you drop your guard, speak from the heart and make the decision to reach out from a place of kindness and compassion, you create the space for someone else to smile.
Remember, your best friend was once a stranger too.
Who knows what beautiful connections await when you choose to brighten the day of another person?
Here are 45 wild and wonderful ways you can make a stranger smile— a simple act of kindness that ripples outward, spreading joy, love and light in ways you might never imagine.
1. Smile First: It sounds simple, but this is often overlooked. Offer a genuine, warm smile to a stranger—it’s contagious, and they will likely smile back.
2. Compliment their Outfit: Everyone loves to be noticed for their style. A simple “I love your jacket!” or “Those shoes are amazing!” can brighten their day instantly.
3. Hold the Door Open: Take an extra second to hold the door for someone walking in behind you. It’s a small gesture, but it shows thoughtfulness.
4. Offer a Genuine Compliment: Whether it’s their smile, their laugh or the way a person confidently carries themselves, compliment something that stands out to you.
5. Share Your Umbrella: If it’s raining and you see someone without an umbrella, invite them to share yours as you walk.
6. Let Someone Go Ahead of You in Line: Whether at the grocery store or a busy café, letting someone step ahead of you in line is a small but kind act.
7. Offer Help: If you see someone struggling with heavy bags or trying to reach something, offer your help. Kindness in action.
8. Compliment Their Smile: Tell someone they have a beautiful smile. This is likely to make them smile even more.
9. Say “Good Morning: Greet strangers in the morning with a cheerful “Good morning!”—this sets a positive tone for the day.
10. Share Directions: If someone looks lost, offer to help them find their way with a smile.
11. Compliment Their Energy: “I love your energy!” is a compliment that goes deeper than looks and lets someone know you see their inner light shining bright.
12. Share a Story: Start a conversation with a stranger and share a funny or uplifting story from your life. It might just make them laugh and feel connected, and you also have the chance to learn something from a stranger.
13. Offer a Seat: If you are on public transport or in a crowded space, offer your seat to someone who looks like they could use it.
14. Be Enthusiastic: If someone tells you something about themselves, respond with enthusiasm. “Wow, that’s amazing!” It will boost their spirits.
15. Share Your Favourite Song: If music comes up in conversation, share a song that always puts you in a good mood. Music has a way of connecting us all.
16. Return a Lost Item: If you find something someone has dropped, go out of your way to return it to them with a smile.
17. Leave Flowers Somewhere: Leave a bouquet of flowers in a public place with a note: “For whoever needs a little beauty today.”
18. Send a Postcard to a Stranger: Pick a random address and send a postcard with an uplifting message like, “You are stronger, braver and more extraordinary than you realise. Keep going—you have totally got this. Wishing you multiple moments of joy today.”
19. Say “You are Beautiful”: Tell someone they are beautiful—not just for how they look, but for their energy and presence.
20. Offer Encouragement: If you see someone struggling with a task, offer a few words of encouragement. “You are capable of amazing things!” can go a long way.
21. Send Love in a Text: If you have a friend who is going through something, text them a random message reminding them how incredible they are.
22. Compliment Their Laugh: A good laugh is infectious. If someone has a laugh that makes you smile, tell them so.
23. Pay for a Stranger’s Meal: At a restaurant or café, anonymously pay for someone else’s meal. This is a generous and surprising act of kindness.
24. Offer a Kind Gesture: Sometimes, simply making eye contact with a stranger and offering a smile, a nod or a wave can make them feel acknowledged.
25. Thank Someone for their Kindness: If someone does something nice, even if small, thank them for their kindness—this will encourage more of it.
26. Praise Their Passion: If you overhear someone talking excitedly about something they love, acknowledge their passion. “You speak about that with such joy!”
27. Share a Sweet Memory: Tell a stranger a nostalgic or heartwarming memory—chances are it will bring a smile to their face.
28. Offer a Warm Goodbye: When leaving a store, say “Goodbye, have a wonderful day!” It leaves a lasting positive impression.
29. Write a Positive Review: If you experience good service, or read a captivating blog write a glowing review to lift the business and brighten their day.
30. Offer Directions with a Smile: If someone looks lost, not only offer directions but do so with a smile and enthusiasm, making them feel welcome.
31. Buy Local Goods: When visiting a local farmers market or store, compliment the vendor on their products and make a purchase. Your support will mean the world to them.
32. Share a Quote That Inspires You: If you have been inspired by a quote, share it with a stranger or write it down for someone to find. Words are a powerful source of connection.
33. Say “Have a Great Day”: When finishing a conversation or transaction, look someone in the eye and sincerely wish them a great day.
34. Pay Attention to the Little Things: Notice small details about someone, like a unique brooch they are wearing or an interesting book they are carrying. Point it out with genuine interest. People love when you notice the little things that make them unique.
35. Offer a Warm Greeting: When passing someone on the street or entering a room, offer a simple “Hello” or “Good afternoon.” It’s amazing how a warm greeting can shift someone’s mood in an instant.
36. Share a Thoughtful Gesture: Offer someone a helping hand—whether it’s holding an elevator door open or carrying something heavy. These little gestures don’t go unnoticed and often inspire a smile of gratitude.
37. Brighten Their Day with Flowers: Leave a single flower on a stranger’s car windshield, bench, or doorstep with a note that says, “Here’s something to make you smile today!”
38. Acknowledge their Hard Work: If you see someone working diligently—whether at a grocery store, library, or even a street performer—acknowledge their effort with a heartfelt “I see how hard you’re working—keep it up!”
39. Offer a Heartfelt “Good Night”: If you are in an evening setting, maybe at a café or on a walk, part ways with a friendly, “Good night, have a sensational sleep!” This is a warm farewell that brings comfort and care.
40. Compliment their Jewellery: Notice a unique necklace, bracelet or ring? A kind compliment like, “That’s a beautiful and truly unique necklace!” can spark a warm exchange and bring out a smile.
41. Share a moment of laughter with Them: If you overhear a funny moment or joke, join in with a friendly laugh and say, “That was absolutely hilarious!” Laughter is a universal connector.
42. Share a Positive Observation: If you see someone enjoying a quiet moment, share in it by saying, “You look so peaceful—what a beautiful moment, I can see how much your heart and face are smiling.” This brings mindfulness into the shared space, making both of you smile.
43. Show Appreciation for Their Service: Whether you’re at a café, restaurant, or store, let the person serving you know how much you appreciate their time and effort with a sincere, “Thank you for your kindness and everything you do—keep smiling, it really makes a difference!”
44. Share a Happy Memory: Strike up a conversation with a stranger and share a happy or nostalgic memory. This invites them to do the same, often sparking smiles and connection over shared stories.
45. Share an Interesting Fact: Start a friendly conversation with a stranger by sharing an uplifting or fun fact. Something like, “Did you know that smiling is contagious?” or “Did you know laughter boosts your immune system?” can lead to a joyful exchange.
Share your smile and watch as the World smiles with you.
Making a stranger smile is one of the simplest and most impactful ways to spread joy in the world.
It’s about breaking down the barriers that often keep us from connecting with one another and remembering that we all share this human experience together. Whether it’s a kind word, a thoughtful gesture, or just offering your presence, every act of kindness ripples out in ways we may never fully see.
The next time you step out into the world, make it your mission to spread smiles wherever you go.
Drop your guard.
Be yourself in the most beautiful way.
Offer a stranger the chance to connect with you.
You might just be surprised at the warmth and kindness that comes back your way.
After all, your best friend was once a stranger, too.
Wild hearts, wild smiles—let’s keep spreading kindness, one smile at a time.